Fashion is often seen as a dazzling world of creativity, individuality, and self-expression. But for someone like me, an autistic model and activist, it can also be a space filled with challenges, misunderstandings, and exclusion. I’ve spent much of my life navigating the intersection of autism and fashion, determined to create a space where being different is not only accepted but celebrated. My mission now is to inspire the fashion industry to embrace neurodiversity and to make it a more inclusive place for everyone.
Finding My Path in Fashion
Growing up, I was constantly told that the fashion industry was too fast-paced, too loud, and too unpredictable for someone like me. Society often sees autism as a limitation, a
barrier to success in high-pressure environments. But I saw it differently. From a young age, I found solace in fashion—the textures, colors, and combinations of clothing became a way for me to express emotions that I struggled to communicate through words. Fashion was my way of interacting with the world.
As I grew older, I knew that I wanted to pursue a career in the fashion industry. However, I also understood that the road ahead would be far from easy. The fashion world is notorious for its demanding pace, its unspoken social rules, and the sensory overload it can cause. For someone on the autism spectrum, these challenges can seem insurmountable. Yet, I was determined to find my place and make a difference.
Overcoming the Challenges
The first obstacle I encountered was the lack of representation. I didn’t see anyone like me—no autistic designers, models, or influencers. It was as though there was no room
for someone with my perspective. But instead of letting that discourage me, I saw it as an opportunity. If no one else was making space for autistic individuals in fashion, then
I would be the first. I would show the world that being different is not a weakness but a strength.
Sensory overload was one of the biggest hurdles I faced. Fashion shows with their flashing lights, blaring music, and crowded environments were overwhelming. Even behind the scenes, the constant noise and activity of design studios could be exhausting. But I found ways to adapt—noise-canceling headphones, quiet breaks, and carefully managing my schedule. More importantly, I became an advocate for creating spaces within the industry that are more inclusive and considerate of neurodiverse individuals.
Creating My Space
One of my most rewarding experiences has been creating a platform on Instagram, @autistatitude, where I share how my autism diagnosis transformed my choices in fashion, clothing, and aesthetic practices of femininity. Modeling has given me a greater sense of self, and through my work, I highlight how fashion can be a powerful vehicle for change for autistic individuals. My goal is to open up a dialogue around the experiences of autistic people in the fashion world—not just about showcasing fashion, but about breaking down the barriers that prevent people like me from thriving in this space.
On my platform, I discuss topics ranging from sensory-friendly designs to accommodations that can help neurodiverse professionals succeed in the industry. I also address the wider issue of employment in my country, Brazil, where over 85% of autistic people are outside the job market. It’s not just about creating inclusive workspaces but also about recognizing autistic individuals as a valuable consumer demographic. Fashion, in my view, must become more accessible, and sensory-inclusive fashion should be a standard, not a niche.
The Sensory-Inclusive Fashion Movement
Over the past few years, there has been a growing movement toward sensory-inclusive fashion. This movement focuses on designing clothing that is comfortable, functional, and sensitive to the needs of neurodiverse individuals, especially those with sensory processing differences. For many autistic people, the feel of fabric against the skin, the
tightness of clothing, or the presence of tags can create discomfort or anxiety. Sensory-inclusive fashion aims to eliminate these discomforts by using soft fabrics, seamless
stitching, adjustable fits, and removing bothersome tags.
As a strong advocate of this movement, I believe that sensory-friendly fashion is not just a trend but a necessity. This is especially true when we consider the number of people, both neurodiverse and neurotypical, who struggle with sensory sensitivities. Creating garments that cater to these needs enhances the wearer’s experience and makes fashion more inclusive for all.
One exciting development in this movement is the introduction of the Sensory-Inclusive Label. This label serves as a certification that a garment meets specific sensory-friendly criteria, much like how the organic label works in food production. The Sensory-Inclusive Label identifies clothing designed with features such as soft, breathable fabrics, tagless designs, and adaptive options. It’s a symbol of comfort, inclusivity, and thoughtfulness—reassuring consumers that their needs have been considered. This label is not just about accessibility; it’s about creating a standard in the fashion industry where neurodiverse individuals are actively considered from the design process to the final product.
By advocating for this label, I aim to bring greater awareness to the importance of sensory comfort in fashion. As more brands adopt sensory-friendly designs, I believe we can transform the industry to better serve individuals with autism and others with sensory sensitivities.
Embracing Authenticity
Being autistic has given me a unique perspective on fashion. While the industry often celebrates trends and conformity, I celebrate authenticity. Fashion, for me, is about telling a story—not just about clothes, but about identity. Every piece I wear or design is an expression of who I am, someone who refuses to fit into the traditional mold.
I’ve come to realize that my autism is not something to hide but something to embrace. It has shaped my journey in fashion, giving me the resilience to overcome challenges and the creativity to think outside the box. My work is about more than just creating beautiful garments; it’s about celebrating the uniqueness of every individual, including those who, like me, experience the world differently.
Paving the Way for Future Generations
Looking back, I wish I had seen more neurodiverse representation in the fashion industry. But today, I am filled with hope for the future. There is a growing movement toward inclusivity in fashion, and I am proud to be a part of that change. I want future generations of autistic individuals to know that they, too, have a place in this industry.
Fashion is not just for those who can navigate high-pressure environments or follow social norms. It’s for those who see the world differently, for those who can offer a fresh perspective. My goal is to continue advocating for inclusive practices in the fashion industry, pushing for spaces where neurodiverse individuals can thrive without having to compromise who they are.
Final Thoughts
My journey in fashion has been one of self-discovery, resilience, and, most importantly, empowerment. I have learned that my autism is not a limitation but a gift that allows me
to contribute something valuable to the fashion world. By embracing who I am and refusing to conform to societal expectations, I’ve found success on my own terms.
For anyone who feels like they don’t belong, whether in fashion or any other industry, I want you to know that there is always a place for you. You don’t have to fit into a predefined box. Create your own space, and let your uniqueness shine. The world needs more voices like ours—voices that challenge the status quo and redefine what it means to belong.
Fashion is not just about clothes; it’s about identity. I am proud to say that my identity, as an autistic woman, has shaped my work in ways I could never have imagined. By advocating for sensory-inclusive fashion and supporting the Sensory-Inclusive Label, I hope to lead the way toward a more inclusive and diverse fashion industry that serves everyone—regardless of how they experience the world.
Raquel Abiahy, 45 years old, Brazilian, late diagnosed Autistic, is a model and activist dedicated to the inclusion of Autistic people in the world of Fashion. Graduated in History and postgraduate in Art, Fashion and Culture, she also works as a columnist and creator of projects related to the inclusion of Autistic people, having collaborated with agencies, educational institutions and media outlets. Creator of the Instagram profile @autistatitude – the only one focusing on Autism and fashion – defends the innovative concept of ‘Inclusive Sensory Fashion’, which seeks to adapt clothing to the sensory needs of Autistic people, being the greatest authority in the exclusive Autism and Fashion niche in your country.
